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Better matching. Better functionality.

Define your matching criteria and immediately get a list of matching au pairs. 

Contact your favorites via our messaging system and exchange personal messages. 

Keep the overview with favorite groups and private notes and find the au pair or host family who really matches you and your lifestyle.


Au pairs and families: free premium features

As an au pair you can enjoy all our services for free – also those, which are premium elsewhere!

New: premium functions are now also free for families!


Agencies: free premium trial period

As an agency, you can test all of our services for 7 days – with full functionality, free of charge and without any obligations (no automatic elongation of contract!). 

Learn more about our services for agencies!

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Find the au pair / the host family which really matches you and your lifestyle.

Find the perfect au pair / the perfect host family

Country Information

Get all the information you need to know about a host country - detailed and thoroughly researched.

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In which countries can I become an au pair?
rules & regulations for my host country

You want to know the prerequisites, rules and regulations about becoming au pair or being a host family in a specific country? 

You need a step by step guideline how to do it? 

Check out our thoroughly researched and well-structured country information!

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Tips, news and ideas

In our multi-lingual community you can exchange information, seek help, get support, stay connected and find friends – therefore you should also join if you already are an au pair or a host family!

Stay connected - online and offline

With nearBy we offer you an overview which host families and au pairs live close to you, so it’s easy for you to get in contact with other host families and au pairs not only online but also in real life.

How it works:
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Security and data protection

We protect your data!

In contrast to most other matching sites for au pairs, we don’t show data of our members to the public - not even partly.

Only registered members - who accepted our terms and conditions and by that agreed not to share any of this data or use it for any other purposes - get access to your data.

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